Yes! It helps so very much to discover other people feel similarly.

And it's not really something I want to bring up in discussions about transgender issues, because "Gee, I don't feel much like either" is still a pretty privileged position, compared to that. But those discussions often end up reminding me, a bit uncomfortably, that there is in fact a position other than "completely at ease with current body" or "actively uncomfortable with current body", even beyond gender inequality issues, which shows up.

...my sentences are convoluted. Sorry. But, yes. I want my third option. Genderless without necessarily being sexless, even, if that makes sense.